To all of your who responded to my two blog entries below, I want to thank you for your comments and voices of support. As one human being to another, I personally would NEVER treat a FRIEND as I was treated ... NEVER! In any circle of life, It was simply wrong!
Yes, we ALL may not agree with each other or like what is said, but it certainly does not warrant cruelty such as was displayed from whom I thought was a true friend. But now I know that the friendship was never a part of our association and I'm ok with that. The individuals action, they will have to answer for it, not me! Therefore, I can walk away with no quilt or apology.
Again, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for your support. And now lets all move on ... IT'S CHRISTMAS ... it's time for rejoicing and celebration!
Yes, we ALL may not agree with each other or like what is said, but it certainly does not warrant cruelty such as was displayed from whom I thought was a true friend. But now I know that the friendship was never a part of our association and I'm ok with that. The individuals action, they will have to answer for it, not me! Therefore, I can walk away with no quilt or apology.
Again, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for your support. And now lets all move on ... IT'S CHRISTMAS ... it's time for rejoicing and celebration!
I tell you my friend, you're a bigger man than I would ever dream of being. How you resolved this with your posting, you go guy! You are so right about one thing. TW will have to answer for her cruelty, not you! You're the man buddy!
ReplyDeleteJohn
YOU GO PHILIP!
ReplyDeleteJane
Hey buddy, we all stand and applaud you! Taking the high road is one thing TW will never be able to do, therefore we all thank you for showing us that you are a better person than TW will ever be.
ReplyDeleteSean
Time for rejoicing and celebration? Hell yeah!!!! It's time to rejoice and celebrate that the bitch is out of your life. Talk about a Merry Freaking Christmas!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteIt is sad that the relationship had to end in the way it did. However, sometimes we simply have to rid our lives of those who are not beneficial to our emotional well being. I believe that the termination of the association is the best thing. It's just to bad that Philip had to take the blunt of TW's cruel and hostile, as well as unacceptable behavior. Blessing to you Philip during this Christmas season.
ReplyDeleteRev. Jackson
Philip, the way in which you turned the other cheek, BRAVO!
ReplyDeletePastor Robert Kennel
MOVE ON????? Oh HELL NO!!!! Post TW's picture so when we see her in public we can give her a piece of our mind. Then again, who would want to be like her ... my bad!
ReplyDeleteFrank
Merry Christmas Phil. Your greatest gift isn't TW, but those who REALLY care about you. Enjoy the Season my friend.
ReplyDeletenZa
Hey Buddy! I'm sure you are hurting right now. But you know what? This to has past. Live in the moment and enjoy the Christmas season with those who love and care about you my friend.
ReplyDeleteJack
Philip, you are my on line FRIEND. TW, you're my on line enemy.
ReplyDeleteA
Brother Philip, you're one fine dude! Good for you! Like the way you've brought and end to TW's horrible rantings. Merry Christmas bud!
ReplyDeleteJC
Merry Christmas to you Philip. Moving on to enjoy the holidays is what the doctor orders. Enjoy the hell out of it! And TW, if you're reading this, a junk of coal for you lady!
ReplyDeleteWhat's really sad is that the rest of the family has no back bone to stand up to TW's bullshit. So the entire family is wrong by association. But then again, TW would probably do the same to them...how sad! Anyway, Philip, you're a good man in how you're handling this. TW should take lessons! The rest of the family should fall in line too.
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Philip
ReplyDeleteYou and I have spoke at length about this and all I can say is, you know we love you, always have, always will. Wishing you a wonderful Merry Christmas filled with the blessings, joys, love and peace only the Lord can provide.
Love
Robyn
Philip, I have read through your blog and tried to find for myself as to why TW expelled you from her and her families life, because people simply don't remove people from their life for no reason at all! Anyway, this is what I have concluded from my readings.
ReplyDeleteFrom what I read you have nothing but prise for this family. My God!, you've given them the status of "extended family" which many would not do. Talk about an honor!!!! Yes, you've expressed your feelings and disappointments according to how you see and believe them to be, therefore I really have to say that I just don't get why TW became so hateful over what you've posted. If it's honest, it is what it is! If one doesn't agree with it, that's ok, but to hatefully eliminate someone, I have a problem with this.
When I read TW rantings, it appears to me that she is expecting you to think and act the way she desires, that you are not allowed to have particular feelings or emotions, if you do don't express them, and if you stray from this you can't be her friend. I can only scratch my head in total amazement that she would expect such an unreasonable, as well as an irrational thing.
Then there's TW's ranting about the rest of her family. Just because TW says she is finished with you that right or wrong the rest of the family has to "go along" with her decision? What? I guess her mind control extends farther than I realize? What in God's green earth did you do to her family? Nothing, according to TW's own words! Therefore, I don't understand or maybe I'm not supposed to? Nonetheless, this causes me to really scratch my head in total amazement.
In my opinion, if her family goes along with TW they are certainly weak and are equally at fault for even going along with her inhuman actions. If TW's family doesn't feel the same way then they should stand against her and voice such to her. As I see it, TW's the weakest link here! Therefore, if the family has any care in their hearts they should call TW on the carpet and fear for their own ties that bind.
All I can say is this. TW's irrational rantings were hateful. No human being has the right to treat another in the way she did. If you don't like someone, ok, leave them alone. But to humiliate them in writing? I find this to be absolutely unacceptable and reveals the writers insecurities and self-loathing. Thus I conclude by saying that you, Philip, should distance yourself from TW, including her family and move on with your life. This is not to say that you shouldn't forgive because forgiveness heals. But personally speaking, forgive and put distance between you and them.
I enjoyed reading your entire blog. Keep up the good work. And don't ever allow someone to intimidate you into being anyone other than yourself, feelings and emotions and all.
Blessing to you brother in this Christmas season and always,
Rev. Jackie