Dear Philip,
It would be simpler for me to click my response to your current poll in which you are questioning the honesty of your friend. Since you are a dear friend of mine, I chose to share my personal thoughts with you because I am aware of the situation.
Allow me to begin by saying; once a lier, always a lier! With this said, it is my opinion that you dump the S.O.B. and move on. The individual you are referring to is not your "friend" if they cannot be honest! All they are doing is emotionally using you for their own personal whatever satisfaction and/or reasons. Once you serve their twisted purpose you are the one that will be left to pick up the pieces while they move on to the next deception.
Philip, you are a wonderful individual! You have been through enough! You don’t need someone in your life who cannot be honest with themselves, let alone with you, because it will only bring you further heartbreak. You have worked to hard to be in a shallow dead end friendship. If you allow yourself the opportunity, I know that you will find complete happiness with someone who will respect your friendship unconditionally, and because of that respect the honesty will be there regardless. Otherwise, cut your losses and put this individual behind you. Like the heading on your blog, “Always sailing with the wind at my back,” leave the hurricane behind for they will destroy you and all that you have worked so hard to achieve.
You Friend,
Julie
Shared with permission from the writer who is responding to July 5/08 "Question" posting.
(Also See July 5 "Question" and August 10 "Poll Response")
It would be simpler for me to click my response to your current poll in which you are questioning the honesty of your friend. Since you are a dear friend of mine, I chose to share my personal thoughts with you because I am aware of the situation.
Allow me to begin by saying; once a lier, always a lier! With this said, it is my opinion that you dump the S.O.B. and move on. The individual you are referring to is not your "friend" if they cannot be honest! All they are doing is emotionally using you for their own personal whatever satisfaction and/or reasons. Once you serve their twisted purpose you are the one that will be left to pick up the pieces while they move on to the next deception.
Philip, you are a wonderful individual! You have been through enough! You don’t need someone in your life who cannot be honest with themselves, let alone with you, because it will only bring you further heartbreak. You have worked to hard to be in a shallow dead end friendship. If you allow yourself the opportunity, I know that you will find complete happiness with someone who will respect your friendship unconditionally, and because of that respect the honesty will be there regardless. Otherwise, cut your losses and put this individual behind you. Like the heading on your blog, “Always sailing with the wind at my back,” leave the hurricane behind for they will destroy you and all that you have worked so hard to achieve.
You Friend,
Julie
Shared with permission from the writer who is responding to July 5/08 "Question" posting.
(Also See July 5 "Question" and August 10 "Poll Response")
Thank you Julie - I could not have said it any better. It is as if you were writing my exact thoughts. I only hope that Philip will listen to your wise words.
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